I was just wondering what the dictionary definition of “cling” is:
- To hold together
- To adhere as if glued firmly
- To hold or hold on tightly or tenaciously
- To have a strong emotional attachment or dependence
- To remain or linger as if resisting complete dissipation or dispersal
Hmmmm… that’s not bad. Its good to be tenacious and have strong emotional attachments.
Where I grew up, “bitter” was always used to describe a women with some unjustified state of small minded meanness. Did Barack Obama actually mean to imply that all people in the small towns are ’small minded women’? The Fox channel and the other campaigns are kind of making me feel that way. Just what is the definition of bitter?
- Distasteful or distressing to the mind : galling
- Angry, hurt or resentful because of one’s bad experiences or a sense of unjust treatment
- Being relentlessly determined : vehement
- Exhibiting intense animosity harshly reproachful
- Marked by cynicism* and rancor
- Expressive of severe pain, grief, or regret
Wow that’s a wide range of emotions. And no mention of gender anywhere. I’ll take three from def #2 and one from def #6, please.
Over the past 7 years of seeing people’s jobs outsourced while CEO pay quadrupled (or what ever the multiple is), I thought of not being bitter as a spiritual process. Now that I read the definitions I see that ‘bitter’ covers a much broader range of emotions that I thought. Maybe I am bitter.
Maybe having a president with a bigger vocabulary that I do isn’t such a bad idea. After all, having one with a smaller one sure has been sad and painful.
* PS: I think that its the pundits and politicians that try to get us to vote against our own interests and the interests of the nation that are the ones who are cynical.